On a daily
basis, we hear of two-hundred-year-old horse chestnut trees being cut down in
case a 'conker' falls on someone's head, or an ancient yew tree, on a corner
in a village, removed because some fool drove into it at high speed and killed
himself. The intimation is 'we can't sue the tree so we'll kill it'. It's a
pity they don't take that attitude to drug-crazed knife-killers.
It would only take a
couple or three to be transported to the Netherworld and, I believe, these creatures would realise the potential consequences of their actions and throw
their blades into a river.
Discipline, an old-fashioned word; children today cannot be smacked, even by their parents. At no time may they be allowed to risk experiencing pain of any kind. What nonsense! Pain is a fact of life. The very act of producing life is painful -
ask any mother!
I believe that to deprive a child of the opportunity to experience pain is as abusive as to deprive it of love. The longer one spends devoid of any experience of pain, the more frightening the prospect of pain becomes. Eventually, we will have a Europe that is inhabited by sedentary, obese individuals who are incapable of climbing a set of stairs, let alone a mountain!
Eventually, if we
continue in this vein, sports will be banned, one after another, because the
potential for injury is inherent in them. On the other hand, these sports
generate enormous revenues so perhaps not...
Children need to be
allowed to take small risks and, gradually, to learn for themselves the
immutable laws of cause and effect - when climbing trees, or jumping around, a
few bruises are inevitable, perhaps even a broken bone or two, on the way to
learning one's physical limitations but so what? Children mend easily and
never forget lessons learned this way.
Equally, children need to
engage in competitive sports with their peers - to excel where they can - to
find out who they are and what they are good at. I wanted to be good at field
sports and tried so hard but to no avail. The gymnasium and the boxing ring
were where any talents I might have lay. I had to learn that life is unfair.
It always was and always will be. Until children are allowed
once again to spread their wings without twittering, wittering half-wits
spelling out the dangers of having a game of 'conkers', and outlawing it, we
are on a slippery slope. The collective energy of the young
is an enormous powerhouse that needs direction not suppression. |